How to talk with anyone confidently
Usually, we are shy about talking to others and keep quiet because we don't know how to talk, but in this article, I will share some tips on how to talk confidently.
A smile is very beautiful, so when we meet someone, we
should see 2 or 3 seconds and smile at him. That smile should be genuine and should not be
laughed out of duty.
Why smile is so important? When we see someone sad and we smile, he hides his sadness and smiles for us.
Smile a bit when you talk to others and they will feel
better and safe
Eye contact
Social experts say that many people do not make eye contact
with the person they are talking to; instead, they look elsewhere and talk.
When we talk like this, if we look elsewhere and talk,
they may not like it, and they will think that they do not want to talk. Even
if we casually look elsewhere, they know it's wrong, so we shouldn't make this
mistake.
You should also remember that what we are talking about may
not be liked by those in front of you. If we know when we are talking about
something that they are not interested in, we should stop that topic and move
on to the next topic.
We should speak with interest so that the other person
listens to what we are talking about.
Don't say single-word questions and answers
When most people meet for the first time, their conversation
is very brief.
They don't know what to say, so they hesitate to speak.
For example, if he
asks about your job, you should tell him about it and then give a short
description of it, to increase the conversation.
Remember, do not answer any question in one word.
React according to the situation
You will be facing such a situation in your life.
Someone comes to you and talks to you about being very
happy, fresh, and full of joy, but you are sad and your mood is not right. Or
it could be the opposite; you may be very happy, but the person you are talking
to may not be well, or they may be sad.
In this situation, we should talk normally without
showing sadness or happiness.
It will be tough, but we have to get through this.
Parroting Technique
The parrot repeats the words we speak and makes us happy by
speaking as if we were speaking.
Similarly, when we
repeat the last word to the speaker, he repeats it in more detail. For example,
we have someone talking about cinema, which is good.
He said that the
fight scenes in that film are stunning. Then, if you asked if it was, he
would elaborate again. At the end of that, you will have the satisfaction of
having a good conversation.
You can use this
technique if you feel like you need to talk more with your crush.
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